For a good six or seven years or so, I didn't use Story Games much. What brought me back a few years ago were folks' descriptions of the particular ways that their groups played Dungeons and Dragons, particularly Eero and Sandra.
I'd love to hear about more folks' particular D&D idioms. The community here is super small, though. So, in a probably doomed attempt, I started a Reddit sub-forum to talk about ways of playing D&D.
Most likely it will go nowhere! Hopefully it will go somewhere! If any of you would like to contribute, I'd love to see what you have to show https://www.reddit.com/r/dndtheory